fijitears:

My actual goals are to be so successful & independent that I can spoil myself and my family and do what I love and go where I want whenever.

black-quadrant:

do not read old emails, old texts, old logs, anything from someone you don’t interact with anymore.  take out the trash, delete it all, purge it from your life.  there’s no sense in keeping painful reminders no matter how fond they once were.  this clutter no longer serves you; it just takes up valuable space.